WELCOME TO MARRIED LIFE

"Marriage" - A topic that provokes various thoughts into the minds of different individuals. However, all the opinions can be generally categorized into two fundamental groups, one being the positive thoughts and the other being the negative thoughts. The opinion one may hold is based on ones past experiences in life. This does not mean that a person necessarily has to be married in order to have a say about it, but what I mean is that a person's opinion about  marriage depends on  what he/she has witnessed from the marriages of those around him/her. For an example, a child whose parents had a problematic married life will most likely have a negative impression about marriage.


But, is marriage really a bad idea? Why do some marriage work while others don't? What do you need to know about marriage prior to it? What are some of the struggles you may come across? These are some question which in sha Allah I will try to answer in the due course.


 Marriage was always one of my all time favorite topic of discussion both due to its beauty and complexity. And I happened to be the first of my friends to get married, which made me, in that aspect the more experienced one from among my friends. And there had been several instances where I was giving tips and talking about the reality of married life to them. Their eagerness added fuel to my interest which ultimately inspired me write this marriage series which I decided to call as ''Welcome to married Life''. In sha Allah in this series I hope to share the lessons that I've learnt from my personal married life and the lives of others. I sincerely hope that it might come in handy to someone in sha Allah.